boundaries
support for healthy energetic autonomy
Working with boundaries support
I originally developed this workshops for “sensitives and empaths” but the truth is we are all empathic in different ways through our openness. And, this workshop provides support for protecting our vulnerabilities. It’s not about putting up armor but instead having tools and practices to not take on other energies as our own.
I invite you to utilize this course in whatever way serves you to get the most value. I would listen to the audios a couple of times to begin and see what jumps out at you. Maybe you know exactly what you want to dive into or you visit a piece of it everyday working your way through. Another option is grabbing a tool or a few and work with them for 30 days noticing what shifts or doesn’t and then try a new one.
If you’d like to inject some whimsy + have some daily guidance. Here is a 30 Days to Healthier Energetic Autonomy Deck. You can print the pages and cut them into cards; fold them and put them in a bowl, and then draw a card each day to offer you a focus.
R I t u a l
A practice.
Bonus tools adapted from good read Say What You Mean
Don’t Be Afraid of Your Dark
Scroll down for flow don’t hold honorable mentions
R E S O U R C E S
On B+F IGTV
Let It Go Breath (for releasing energy)
Cord Cutting Meditation (for disconnecting your energy from someone)
Ritual (for moving stagnant energy)
Meditation on Sensation (for feeling your own feelings and moving through)
Lovingkindness Meditation (for using your empathic abilities to send out good vibes in the world)
Body RelaxationA playlist to unwind and dance the energy out - dance one song/day and let it dance you
Boncharge - protection from blue light. Use discount code BARNEY15 for 15% off.
Yarrow Flower Essence from Saskia
Herbs (image right) from Anima Mundi
Hawthorn protects our heart + helps us define and clarify our boundaries
Lypospheric Vitamin B Complex + Vitamin C
Sesame Oil massage
If grounding is something you are working with I highly recommend checking out The Root.
Clearing absorbed negative energy with EFT.
Really understand and get to know, honor + empty the openness in your chart.
diy salt scrub
1/2 cup your favorite carrier oil (olive, avocado, jojoba, castor, etc..)
1 cup himalayan, kosher, sea, or French grey salt
5-10 drop of your favorite essential oil (optional)
MANTRA
The Mantra I use everyday for protection.
AAD GURAY NAMEH
JUGGAD GURAY NAMEH
SAT GURAY NAMEH
SIRI GURU DAYVAY NAMEH
This mantra is said to put a white field of protection around you in all 4 directions. I visualize that as I recite it with my hands in prayer at my heart center three times every morning as part of my meditation practice. You can hear pronunciation of it here. If you feel you are needing extra protection you can recite it throughout the day in your mind as well, listen to it in the background at home or while you sleep on very low.
orienting
We always want to be contained in our bodies. Take time often to check in with your feet on the ground, your breath, your butt in the seat, what you can see around you. This simple practice brings us back into our containers again and again. Give yourself a hug, squeeze your legs gently, your arms, connect in and with your body. This is your vessel. This is your container. Ground in.
additional reading
The (HSP) Highly Sensitive Person
flow don’t hold honorable mentions
TRE - Trauma Release Exercise
Dancing out a song.
Breathwork
Shake it out.
Call on your guides for assistance.
Open your detox pathways + cleanse seasonally.
Offer it to the Earth
Healy Release program in Gold
Eating a diet that is easier for your body to digest so you can also process what’s energetically coming thorough you.
Recite a prayer each night, something like: “I call back all fragments of my energy lost or taken across all space and timelines back to me with 100% light. I release what does not serve me to Source with ease + love. I am whole.”
More support for deconditioning.